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After yet another failed 6 month long relationship my thirtysomething neice was recently bemoaning her fate and crying about her inability to find "true love." She complains that it always starts out with a wonderful, joyful, spectacular set of fireworks...
Happy New Year!
This is the time of year many of us begin to reflect on the passing year, or perhaps on our passing lives. If we are fortunate The Ghost of Christmas Past kindly filters our memories to remove any discord that may have existed in our childhood, leaving...
"I don't want my last breath to be a sigh of relief"
My eldest son is a brilliant young man. He has an IQ of 140, which I believe is above average. He is an amazingly gifted artist and poet (the image on this blog was drawn by him). Many years ago he became addicted to heroin. Since birds of a feather...
Sappy Halloween!
Here we are again, approaching the end of the year. Once Halloween hits it’s a quick slide into the rest of the "holiday season." The current sea of orange and black plastic in shopping malls and department stores will soon be replaced with pretty, shiny...
As the World Turns
This is a real departure for me, and is a very long story. I usually write about my opinions and thoughts. Now, I am asking for your opinions and thoughts. Here's the situation: When my oldest son was 28 he was engaged to a young woman. They lived together...
Discrimination is alive and well
After losing my job late last year I launched a major job search using all the usual tools- professional resume writers, head hunters, help wanted ads, online job boards, and temp agencies. By March 2011 I had sent out 300 resumes and had not received...
Why Do I Write?
Why do I write? Why do I submit my writing to Goodblogs? I have to be honest-it isn't really the $20. In school I was asked to write by rules set forth by a teacher. I was told to use a specific format, write about a specific topic, write for a specific...
Windmill Theory
When I was a kid growing up in a remote area in central Arizona my family relied on a windmill for all our water (no electric pump). Sometimes the wind didn't blow and we knew that without water we would all die. So you may think we only had two choices...
Make a New Plan, Stan
I lost my job in December 2010. After accepting a few really low paying, REALLY BORING jobs I decided to do something I have always wanted to do. I started my own company. I have worked hard and loved every minute of it. All systems are in place and ...
Bye Bye
You always think you will ready for the day a child leaves you. It starts when they take their first steps and learn to wave "bye bye." OK, she is not a child. She is a 29 year old woman who has been living on her own since she was 19. By "on her own...

